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A Birthday Tradition Close to My Heart: Boiled Eggs and Mashed Yams

In a world filled with extravagant birthday parties, fancy cakes, and elaborate decorations, one of my most cherished memories revolves around something much simpler—a family tradition of boiling eggs and mashing yams to celebrate birthdays. While it may not sound like the typical birthday fare, it holds a significance that goes far beyond taste or appearance.

Growing up, birthdays in my family were not just about marking the passage of another year; they were about gratitude, togetherness, and celebrating life’s simple joys. The humble combination of boiled eggs and mashed yams became the centerpiece of this celebration. It was a tradition steeped in meaning, one that reminded us of our roots and the value of family.

The Symbolism Behind the Tradition

The boiled egg, in its simplicity, symbolizes new beginnings and the circle of life. Just as the egg holds the potential for life within its shell, each birthday is a reminder of the opportunities and growth the year ahead may bring. The mashed yam, a staple in many cultures, represents sustenance and the strength we draw from our loved ones. Together, they form a meal that is nourishing, both for the body and the soul.

The Joy of Preparing Together

One of the best parts of this tradition was the preparation process. It wasn’t just about eating the meal but about coming together as a family to create it. My cousins,would help peel the yams, while my parents ensured everything was cooked to perfection. The kitchen would be filled with laughter, stories, and the comforting aroma of boiling yams and eggs.

Once the meal was ready, we’d gather around the table, share our blessings for the birthday celebrant, and enjoy this simple yet deeply meaningful feast. There was no rush, no distractions—just a moment to truly connect as a family.

Why It Still Matters

As life has become busier and more complicated, I often find myself longing for the simplicity of those birthday celebrations. The boiled eggs and mashed yams were not just food; they were a representation of love, care, and shared history. They reminded me that the best celebrations don’t require extravagance—just the presence of those who matter most.

Even now, as an adult, I carry this tradition forward whenever I can. It’s a way to stay connected to my roots and to pass on the values of gratitude and family togetherness to the next generation.

So, the next time you’re planning a birthday celebration, consider embracing a tradition that reflects who you are and where you come from. For me, it’s boiled eggs and mashed yams—a simple, soulful reminder that the best gifts in life are often the simplest.

What’s your favorite family tradition? I’d love to hear about it in the comments!

Until next time….