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Will I go shopping spree?

Where would you go on a shopping spree?

Shopping Smart: Why I’ll Buy A Lot Without Going on a Shopping Spree



I love shopping, and I know I’m going to buy a lot of things this year. But one thing I won’t be doing? Going on a shopping spree. That’s because I’ve shifted my mindset—I’m no longer just spending; I’m strategizing.

The Difference Between Buying a Lot and a Shopping Spree

Buying a lot doesn’t mean reckless spending. It means making intentional purchases, stocking up on essentials, and getting what I actually need (and sometimes want) without breaking my financial plan. A shopping spree, on the other hand, is impulse-driven. It’s that moment when excitement takes over, and before you know it, your bank account is gasping for air. Been there, done that—not doing it again.

My Money Budget Strategy

This time around, I’m sticking to a budget strategy that makes sense:

1. Planning Purchases Ahead of Time

I’m making lists before I shop, whether it’s groceries, clothes, or gadgets. If it’s not on the list, I have to really think twice before adding it to my cart.

2. Setting Spending Limits

Each shopping category has a cap. I may want to buy five pairs of sneakers, but my budget might only allow for two. That’s fine—quality over quantity.

3. Watching for Deals, Not Impulse Discounts

Sales are tricky. A discount doesn’t mean I have to buy something. Instead, I’m looking for the right deals on items I actually need. If I wasn’t planning to buy it, then it’s not a “savings”—it’s an unnecessary expense.

4. Paying Attention to Value, Not Just Price

Cheap isn’t always better. I’d rather buy something a little more expensive that lasts than go for the cheapest option and have to replace it quickly.

5. Leaving Room for Enjoyment

Budgeting doesn’t mean depriving myself. If I want something just because I like it, I’ll factor that into my budget ahead of time instead of feeling guilty later.

The Goal: Financial Freedom, Not Regret

I’ve had my share of shopping sprees, and while they feel great in the moment, the regret of overspending always follows. This new approach keeps me in control, ensuring I buy what I want and need without throwing my financial goals out the window.

So yes, I’ll be shopping—a lot. But it will be smart, intentional, and well within my budget. Because financial freedom > impulse spending.

Until next time…

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