1. Sam's avatar

    yeah I believe it is a familiar insight ,and you are well said.Each need each other.

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  3. Sam's avatar

    A take at a time and you remind me of grace something I barely think of .I will be there…

  4. harythegr8's avatar

    This is quiet courage — not loud wins, but grace that kept walking through grief. Your words remind us that…

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how I feel about the cold

How do you feel about cold weather?

Preserved in the Cold: The Odd Comfort of Enduring Chill”



There’s a strange kind of magic that happens when the cold settles in—not the unbearable, biting cold that turns your thumbs into stiff, frostbitten nuggets or makes  you miss a layer of thermal armor. I’m talking about that sharp, bracing cold that lingers just long enough to feel like it’s sealing you in—preserving you.

It’s a sensation that’s difficult to explain to someone who’s only known cold as discomfort. When you’re out in it—before your body starts trembling uncontrollably, before your fingers beg for gloves you forgot to wear—there’s a moment when the cold feels pure. Clean. Still. Almost like it’s wrapping around you and holding you in place. Not to harm you, but to keep you.

It’s in that pause, that chilly breath of time, where I feel preserved. Like an old artifact sealed in glass. Like something timeless—untouched by the noise of the world, and held at just the right temperature to keep from falling apart. There’s no urgency, no sweat, no chaos. Just endurance.

I think part of this feeling comes from the body’s reaction to the cold. Everything slows down. Your breath becomes visible, like little whispers rising into the air. Your heartbeat feels more noticeable. Your thoughts, somehow, become sharper—like the air itself. There’s clarity in the cold. It demands attention, and in exchange, it grants you a certain stillness.

But of course, there’s a line. That boundary between preserved and punished. Too long, and the body begins to betray you. You need more layers. You need motion. Your thumbs start to go numb, and that quiet preservation threatens to become danger.

Still, in that sweet spot—when the cold is enduring enough, but not yet painful—I feel held. I feel paused in the best way. And for a little while, it’s like I’ve been placed in a kind of protective freeze-frame of life. Nothing rots, nothing rushes. Everything waits.

And in a world that’s always sprinting forward, there’s something beautiful about just being preserved.

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