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    A take at a time and you remind me of grace something I barely think of .I will be there…

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    This is quiet courage — not loud wins, but grace that kept walking through grief. Your words remind us that…

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what I collect

Do you have any collections?



How  I  Collect Perfume Oils: A Scented Journey



There’s something deeply personal about scent. It lingers in rooms long after we’ve left and imprints itself in the memory of others. For me, collecting perfume oils isn’t just a hobby—it’s a way of archiving emotion, memory, and identity in tiny bottles. Here’s how started my collection and what this journey has taught me.

1. It Started With a Single Scent



Like most obsessions, mine began with a single spark. I picked up a small bottle of perfume oil from a street vendor. It didn’t come in fancy packaging or boast a luxury label, but it had depth. It clung to my skin differently. It made me feel grounded. That was my gateway.

2. The Hunt is Part of the High



Unlike commercial colognes, perfume oils often live off the grid. Some of my best finds come from:

Local markets and traders

Online niche vendors

Word of mouth (especially recommendations from fellow scent lovers)

Unexpected places, like a small shop tucked into the corner of a gas station or a kiosk in a mall.


I’m always chasing uniqueness—oils with rare notes or blends that feel like no one else is wearing them.

3. How I Choose What to Collect

Not every bottle makes it into the collection. I look for:

Longevity and skin chemistry – Does it last? Does it change with time?

Mood and memory – Some scents remind me of home, travels, or people I’ve loved.

Versatility – I love a scent that transforms between seasons or times of day.


Sometimes I’m after specific notes—oud, amber, frankincense, or something soft like white musk. Other times, I just go by instinct. If a scent makes me pause, it’s worth owning.

4. Storage and Ritual

I keep my oils stored upright in a cool, dark place. Direct sunlight and heat are the enemies of scent.With time, some of the bottles get old and worn; others are pristine. I like it that way—it tells the story of use.

Applying oil is a ritual for me. I warm it between my fingers , dab it on pulse points, and let it unfold. There’s intimacy in oil—most of them dont shout but those kinds of oils are there  if you want that much attention.Then those that whisper. They draw people in rather than push them away.

5. What I’ve Learned

Your scent is part of your presence. The right oil gives me quiet confidence.

People remember how you smell sometimes More than they remember your outfit or your words.

Collecting is storytelling. Every bottle in my collection holds a moment or a mood.


6. My Signature Oils (So Far)
If I had to name a few  standouts 

I’d start with:

Old spice oil – A bold spicy statement, complex and nostalgic.

Amber blends – Rich, resinous, and warm.

egyptian Musk- grounded ,very natural

Collecting perfume oils is more than owning scents—it’s building a library of who I’ve been, who I am, and sometimes, who I want to be. Whether you’re just getting started or deep in the world of oils, I hope this inspires you to explore scent as a personal art.

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